Monthly Archives: October 2010

WE WERE OUR FIRST — NOW WHAT

It’s not unusual to go from great pride in being your spouse’s “only” to wondering what’s out there and/or “I’m not sure I’m in love anymore.” It’s also not typically something one says to your first lover because its sooooo … Continue reading

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THIS ONE’S FOR THE MEN

There’s this thing, this concept, called “DESIRE.” There’s this other thing called “AROUSAL.”  Interesting that these things appear related but they are not always.  Also, of interest is that they are linked differently depending on gender. Recent revelations that women … Continue reading

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WHAT’S SO BAD ABOUT ABUSE?

What’s so bad about Abuse is that its effects never go away. The bad news is that because abuse tends to happen when the victim was a child, the message it delivers is “you will never be the same,” “you … Continue reading

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