I hesitate to be cliché but as I thought about the holidays, I was once again reminded about how emotionally fragile we all seem  this time of the year. So I wanted to say a few words about why that … Continue reading →

There’s this thing, this concept, called “DESIRE.” There’s this other thing called “AROUSAL.”  Interesting that these things appear related but they are not always.  Also, of interest is that they are linked differently depending on gender. Recent revelations that women … Continue reading →

What’s so bad about Abuse is that its effects never go away. The bad news is that because abuse tends to happen when the victim was a child, the message it delivers is “you will never be the same,” “you … Continue reading →